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Boogie – Woogie Your Way To Career & Parenthood
Written By: Pavithra Desikan

INTRODUCTION 

Being a working parent, although a rewarding experience, can be a challenge. On the one hand, you have the satisfaction of pursuing your career goals and providing for your family. On the other hand, you have the responsibility of juggling family responsibilities, such as school pick-ups, drop-offs, and extracurricular activities. Balancing career and family can be difficult, but it is possible. Here are some tips for working parents, as well as insights from seasoned Systechians, addressing concerns ranging from juggling career aspirations and family responsibilities, to staying mentally healthy and engaged! 

Prioritize – From chaos to choreography! 

One of the biggest challenges of being a working parent is time management. It is essential to prioritize and plan your time, so you can balance your work and family responsibilities. A fine start would be to create a schedule that outlines your work hours, your children’s school hours, and any extracurricular activities they have. Leveraging the multiple organizing tools, both online and offline, you can plan your day and identify times when you can complete work tasks and spend time with your family. 

 “…All the technology solutions created to “save time” turns out to do the opposite, if not utilized in right way.  Take control of your time, because it is YOURS!” – Balaji Subramanian, Principal Architect @ Systech Solutions, UAE. 

Boss, let’s talk! 

Communicating with your employer is essential for balancing your career and family responsibilities. Talk to your employer about flexible work arrangements, such as working from home or adjusting your work hours. If you’re upfront and honest about your family responsibilities, your employer is more likely to be understanding and accommodating. 

Let’s face it – juggling work and family is no easy feat. But here’s the thing, it’s all about communication. Talk to your boss and team, let ’em know what you need to be a happy and present parent, and let’s create a workplace that supports your personal and professional goals. And the whole team benefits when you’re happier and more balanced. So, let’s suit up and save the world, one work-life balance at a time.” – Vaishnavi Gollapudi, Head of Marketing @ Systech Solutions, India. 

Solo-time serenity! 

It’s essential to make time for yourself, even when you have a busy schedule. Self-care is crucial for maintaining your mental health and staying engaged with your family and work. Take a few minutes during the day to relieve the mind, such as going for a walk, reading a book, or practicing meditation.  

“…The skill of retaining a silent moment, practicing simple breathing exercises, can go a long way towards preserving your inner peace.” – Mukundan Kalyanaraman, QA Manager @ Systech Solutions, India. 

Ink that line! 

Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Set limits on your work hours and try not to bring work home with you. When you’re spending time with your family, try to be present and avoid checking your phone or emails. This sends a clear message to your family that they are a priority.  

Ducks in a row! 

Organization is essential for juggling work and family responsibilities. Create to-do lists, use a planner, and set reminders for important tasks. This helps you stay on top of your work and family responsibilities, so you don’t feel overwhelmed. 

“…As a parent, I believe that planning and organizing activities to balance work and kids is key to achieving a happy and fulfilling life. It allows me to be fully present and engaged with my children, while also fulfilling my responsibilities at work.” – Swathi Bhaskaran,  Jr. Recruiter @ Systech Solutions, India. 

Inner peace out! 

Mindfulness is a powerful tool for reducing stress and improving mental health. Mindfulness involves being present and aware of the present moment, without judgment. Practicing mindfulness can help you stay grounded and focused, even when you have a lot on your plate.  

“…Mindfulness is a game-changer for achieving work-life balance. It’s helped me reduce stress, increase productivity, and gain perspective. By prioritizing what’s truly important, I’ve found a more fulfilling and balanced life!” – Swathi Bhaskaran, Jr. Recruiter @ Systech Solutions, India. 

From busy to bonding – Quality time! 

At the end of the day, your family is your top priority. Make time for family activities, such as game nights, movie nights, or outdoor adventures. Spending quality time with your family can help you stay connected and engaged, even when you’re busy with work. 

Gift them the “Present” moment – it’s important to be present in the moment. When you’re with your family, be fully present and engaged. When you’re at work, focus on the task at hand and avoid getting distracted by personal matters. Being present in the moment helps you make the most of your time and creates a sense of balance and fulfilment in your life. 

“…Wear the right hat for the right weather! Work smarter, not longer. By focusing on the task at hand, managing time wisely helps us balance work and family. Don’t let time slip away – use it efficiently and enjoy the best of both worlds!” – Balaji Subramanian, Principal Architect @ Systech Solutions, UAE. 

Last, but certainly not least, The white flag! Asking for help is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of strength. Reach out to family, friends, or colleagues for support when you need it. Consider hiring a babysitter or nanny to help with childcare responsibilities. Remember that it takes a village to raise a child, and it’s okay to ask for help when you need it.  

In the aftermath of COVID-19, Systechians, like many others, found it challenging to maintain a healthy work-life balance. They sought out guidance, prompting Systech to team up with LiveMore, a wellness management app, that provides tailored programs and expert advice to help individuals navigate their crisis situation!  

In a nutshell, balancing career and family may seem daunting, but it’s achievable. By mindfully staying ahead with these pointers, and making time for family and self-care, managing both responsibilities while maintaining good mental health, could be a walk in the park. Remember to be patient and kind to yourself, and don’t be afraid to make adjustments when needed, and most importantly, trust that you’ve got this! 

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